Do You Need Facebook To Make New Friends This Christmas?

What's Facebook got to do with life? One reads that if you are not on Facebook then life is passing you by. Hmmmm.

The last 20 hours has been a period of time that lifts up the heart and causes a real sense of joy and goodwill toward men. It started yesterday evening....

After a hectic day which saw friends missing their flight to visit family because the nearby International Airport security was so slow, re-arranging their tickets for later in the day (and yes, they had to pay for another set of tickets - the airline said it wasn't their fault that security was so slow), fitting in Christmas shopping, another trip to the airport to deliver the friends a second time and more Christmas shopping, it was no wonder that with all the parcels and a 10 year old in tow, I lost my book of 'cards'. Bus pass, debit card and another 10 personal bits of information which made up part of my little identity. All lost, and what's more, I hadn't even realized it.

Soon after arriving home in the evening the phone rang. An Asian voice spoke at the other end having the usual difficulty with the pronunciation of my surname. Feeling as though the patience of Job was called for I suffered his attempts at identifying me and was waiting to tell him that, in fact, we didn't accept telephone sales and that our number was ex-directory so therefore, how was it that he had got it, when he asked me if I had noticed that my cards were lost.

Well, you can imagine my swift change of attitude! After arranging a time to meet in the morning and him identifying himself (so we could recognize him) as tall, dark and handsome, we met him this morning for coffee and this was his story.

He had just purchased an item from a shop in the shopping Mall and was on his way home when he felt prompted to go back and sit down in the nearby central seating area for a few minutes. Doing so, he noticed a paper bag on the floor partly under the bench. A few seconds later another man close-by, picked up the bag and asked our new found friend if it belonged to him.

Our new friend again, feeling prompted, said, 'yes, it is mine'. Looking inside, he found my plastic folder of cards. Going home, his first thought on how to deal with the situation was to report it to the police, which he duly did. They wanted him to come up to the Police station. At night, in the rain, and walking! Well, the Officer said, bring it tomorrow.

Still feeling unsettled by the incident, he decided to try to find me personally. First, he tried Facebook. No joy. But among the cards was a Postal delivery note for collection from the nearest depot. This had our badly written address on it, which meant finding us on Google maps was ruled out, as Google didn't recognise the street address. Next, he typed my name into Google and finding my telephone listed under a Church, he rang.

What amazed him was the persistent feeling that God loved this unknown person very much. Our new friend could not divest himself of this perception.

Although he was brought up in a family where his mother was a strong Christian and, apart from her own job, also voluntarily preached the gospel, he himself had only recently had a born-again experience.

He was now actively asking the Lord, (as we call Him) to show him how best to live his life. Discovering that I was a Christian - as evidenced by my contact to our Church, he could not wait to tell me what a blessing the experience had been for him, and I myself found it so special, I could not wait to write it down.

Christ, the Giver. Even at this Christmas time, 2011 years later, still giving. Still uniting man with man, still working so that the love and unity which He determined so long ago in Himself - as His kingdom - making in Himself, people from every nation, one new creation! Who can find words to express the absolute beauty of this?

Two other little points. I had asked our Church secretary to please remove my phone number from the internet. She never had. And my own pronunciation of unfamiliar words which occur in people from a different tongue and culture to my own, is far from perfect.

So Facebook, can you deliver an experience like this? The answer is just a plain, simple 'No'. Do I really need you then? No, Facebook, I don't. Long after your day has come and gone, Christ will still be with us. That's reason for a shout of 'Hallelujah'!

The Urge To Explain

The shower of rain, snow, whirlwinds, cold, frozen rivers.... He leads the thick clouds with moisture; the clouds scatter His lightning. They turn around and round by His guidance to accomplish all the He commands them on the face of the habitable world."

These are the words of Scripture. Either you accept them for what they say, or you do not. If you argue poetic licence, the unfeasibility of expressing truths beyond our understanding in words we can comprehend, you have a difficulty - for who is to decide what is intended to be taken literally, at face value, and what has to be interpreted, in the light of other scriptures, in order to arrive a their proper, intended meaning.

If one is to retain one's faith in scripture as the Word of God, studying the Word prayerfully in the light of the whole - comparing scripture with scripture as we are specifically instructed to do - will not the Truth contained in the whole shine forth?

If there is doubt on this score, the value of the Word is mightily diminished, is it not? For its true perception belongs only to the elite - those who can read it in the original text, or those enjoying the resources of time and money enabling them to purchase the Word in their own familiar language, and a commentary, Bible dictionary and any other study aids as required by the reader, according to their abilities and available time.

Even given the availability of both these commodities (in adequate quantities), one is still faced with the task of deciding which interpretation among the many, one will decide upon as most trustworthy, accurate, applicable to one's own circumstances. It appears that the field of theological study is littered with the landmines of conflicting interpretation and application. What, then, is one to do?

How can one be certain that any particular resource is the correct one? The issue is not one to be taken lightly. It is crucial. Down the centureis peoples, tribes, individuals, nations, companies of nations, have argued differing interpretations, each belief system held with an integrity so passionate that rivers of blood have been shed in defence of (even by methods contradictory to,) a particular body of belief, expressed in a particular manner of worship.

Does this process, seemingly as inevitable as it is ghastly, not undermine to the point of irrefutable contradiction, the principles, claims, the very validity of most religions? Man feels himself obliged to have some account of his existence. He is, unavoidably, aware of not just the wonder of his own being, but also of creation all about him.

There is so much about it that he cannot understand. Yet, it seems, Man has, in his deepest consciousness, his inner being, a compulsion to acknowledge some force, some process, most satisfyingly some Being, to account for his existence, and therefore intimately involved in his manner of life, his survival.

Inevitably, differing concepts of this source of origin will find expression in the formulation of a system of belief principles conducive to the well-being, even the survival, of clusters of humanity in various part of the globe, perhaps of the cosmos. Sooner or later the disparate clusters, each with it's own interpretation, understanding and manifestation of that perception of their origin, character and destiny, will come into conflict.

Why the two groups, meeting, could not amalgamate in a pooling of resources for the betterment of both must be due to what has been cynically termed the Selfish Gene. Whatever the reason, the outcome has been continual competition and dispute, the survival of the fittest, with all the ugly, unpleasant connotations this implies.

What seems to emerge, then, is that Mankind, as a whole, has failed to perceive or to live out its destiny. The fragmentation of the species has resulted more in competition than co-operation. It is now, at this time in the history of Creation, the responsibility of individuals to seek for themselves the verities of our existence and to put them into practice.

Those who seek the truth in spiritual realities would seem to do this best - for themselves and for Creation as a whole.

Giving To Charity

As a badge-wearing volunteer collector over several years for a well-known Charity operating under the auspices of a small local church, I am sometimes challenged by church-goers and non-churchgoers alike, as to the ethics of systematic, house-to-house collection of donations from the general public. No-one, in my experience, has reacted angrily to my knock on their door. At most, those uncomfortable with being asked if they wish to donate respond either with a silent shake of the head, or an explanation that they donate regularly elsewhere. In private, they might fall into the category of those who consider it a violation of privacy to be faced with such a question. They may have a point. Or else simply do not wish to donate and feel a certain discomfort about having to say so. I prefer to attribute their reservations to a possible sense of unease at having that point of view at all, but this may well just arise from my own attitude on the subject. Whatever the case, I have experienced nothing approaching aggression nor any outright rudeness at all.

Our method is to drop a plastic carry-bag printed with the name of the Charity through the door of individual houses, together with a polite note to the effect that we will be calling again in a week to collect any donation the receiver would like to make. When we call for the second time, a glance at the badge we wear to denote our particular organisation is usually enough to evoke the response - the silent head-shake, a bewildered expression of ignorance, often followed by a delving in the pocket for a donation anyway, or in the worst case, a silent, expressionless shutting of the door.

Others respond not with the bag, but with a regretful half-smile at a small donation, invested, though they might not know it, with all the glory of the widow's mite mentioned in scripture.

Then there are those who cheerfully produce our bag, with the donation enclosed.

Smiles all round, on our part, at almost every transaction. From myself, on behalf of those who will benefit, a grateful thanks. A modest smile from the donor. Everyone happy.

Is this, as some would have it, the palliative devised by fortunate 'haves' to quieten their conscience regarding the less fortunate 'have nots'? I would say, without hesitation, a definite "No!". The Church for whom we few collectors operate is not in what would be considered a wealthy part of town. No-one appears to suffer from any obvious effects of poverty, but neither does anyone vaunt the visual attributes of wealth. Some of those who open the doors are discomfited by being unable to give. A small minority shook their heads, a few in embarrassed disapproval, most of them apologetically. The great majority contribute willingly, with a smile, even if their carry-bag contains just a token of their sympathetic willingness. It is a moment of shared humanity. Warm with the truth of something far deeper than the economics of circumstance. The Bible expresses it clearly: "It is more blessed to give than to receive."

Home And Away In The UK

In the northern extremes of Africa, in the Middle East, nations are in turmoil as the general populace, so long held in subservience by fear of those in power, take heart at the response of the Western nations - some of them - to the rule of Qaddafi in Libya.

France, Britain, the United States, Italy stand united in their condemnation of a despot over his people. This, of course, has happened before. But then it was suspected - sometimes proven - that such aroused sympathy was a ploy to gain power, or at least significant influence, in return for assistance.

This time, the support has been practical, in the form of fighter bombers in the air, avoiding civilian causalities, even to the extent of last-minute aborting of strike missions when civilians were observed on the ground in the target area, sometimes due to unforeseen circumstances, sometimes by the callously deliberate deployment of civilians by Qaddafi as 'human shields'.

In addition, the motives of those nations assisting the so-called rebels in Libya were demonstrating free from any desire to gain control on the ground. They defined their own parameters, avoiding the use of ground forces, concentrating solely on their role as back-up for the anti-government majorities striving to free themselves of oppressive dictatorships.

As a result of this obvious earnest of good intentions, oppressed majorities in other nations have grasped the opportunity to plead their own cause, hoping for similar support. Suddenly the mechanics of political power have assumed a complexity very different from the past. No-one can envisage where this trend will lead, and the strain of this uncertainty is beginning to tell.

As if this was not enough to disturb the equanimity of the world as a whole, natural disasters appear to be occurring on a scale and frequency never experienced before, world-wide.

Against this backdrop, the effects of which extend in the collective subconscious of mankind all over the globe, Britain today provided a pinpoint of relief. On the 29th April 2011, Prince William Windsor married a commoner, Katherine Middleton, evidently to the huge approval not only of the general populace of the United Kingdom, but the world in general.

Here in England, the event was celebrated with an energy and enthusiasm nothing short of astonishing. All over the country Union Jacks of all sizes flutter.

A Short History of the Union Jack
The Royal Wedding
Complete Guide To Libya USA kindle ebook

Retirement

There are those one hears about who suffer from a compulsion to be up and doing, activated by the calendar and clock to be earning money even if they don't in fact need it, by effort and application from pay day to pay day.

My feeling for such folk is one of wondering admiration but I cannot imagine myself among their number. Effort and application are worthy attributes, certainly. But my feeling is that if one has put them into operation for forty years or more in the business of getting married, raising a family, purchasing perhaps one's own dwelling, laying by, if circumstances permit, for the future, then, by the end of three-score years and five, retirement is a wonderful thing.

Retirement, that is, if you receive a pension that covers the necessary cost of living. If you have the good fortune to live in a country that accords benefits such as health care, local bus travel, and others that transfer the burdens of life's basic essentials from your back to the broader shoulders of Government, then there seems to me to be no valid reason to keep working.

To help the children get on to their feet, perhaps? A fine and worthy sentiment, but do they really need your help? The quicker they learn how to live within their means, the happier they will be thereafter. If your pension is adequate for your own reasonable comfort and security, you can always put by each month to treat your offspring and their families to treats according to your ability.

No, I see no problem, ethical or practical, to hinder the enjoyment of one's "declining years" as they are so insensitively sometimes termed. Of course, in the nature of things, general circumstances may change, causing conditions to arise that affect the normal course of life, in which case you, as a grandparent, will wish to assist those affected to the limit of your means.
That situation changes everything, and it could be argued that his occurs so often during a lifetime that an emergency reserve should be factored in to the regular cost of living.

So, just as a general principle then, it still seems to me that those who have served their country and community for most of their adult life, raised a family to the point of their being able to fend for themselves, deserve to enjoy their autumn years doing those things they always wanted to but never had the time - or just, with a clear conscience, to take things easy. That's the theory anyway. But if you want to keep working in a job, for whatever reason and it's not too much for you - why not?

How to Retire Happy, Wild, and Free (USA)
Brilliant Retirement (UK)

By guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

Family Get-together : Weymouth Caravan Park, Dorset

Friday, end-of-term, the nation - or that part of it that still has children at school - considers a holiday in celebration of what is left of summer. Our family, the English sector, plans a get-together over the week-end, at Weymouth, in Dorset.

Our own sub-sector, Doreen's and mine, has fragmented somewhat, with Louise in Zimbabwe with husband Andy and three children, sole representatives in Africa of our connection to that continent. Our fourth born in El Salvador, married to a lovely El Salvadoran, with one daughter, whose acquaintance we have yet to make.

Gale Money, Doreen's sister, with her family around her, intact - her second born with his wife and blonde, blue-eyed daughter Julie; her youngest son Michael and wife with their two children and lastly, her daughter and husband with their two children. All the children are roughly the same age.

Missing are the offspring of my brother-in-law who sadly passed away a few years back. They too, are now all in the UK. His wife - teaching in Scotland and two of her children, also teaching, while the third family member is married and in the USA.

Of our offspring, the ones in the UK, two daughters, one of whom is married are with us. Two children round off that family. Our fifth-born was working, and unable to get away. Our youngest daughter, the oldest of her generation with us, the link between grown-ups and jungfrau. Curiously, now that I have used, or misused - that word, how strong the German element is in this wider family.

Two, from South Africa, have had experience in Namibia as well, though they come from German backgrounds. Our El Salvadoran daughter-in-law's father's admirable attributes were no doubt as a result of his German national character which has contributed so much to humanity and will make itself felt in the ongoing history of our wider family.

One becomes tired of remarking how beautiful this country is. Trite as the observation is, though, it would seem ungrateful, ungracious, almost criminally churlish, not to record the deep appreciation we all felt at just the parts of it we saw from the road and the campsite. Some stretches of the road ran through thick Robin Hood forest, dark, secretive, where very little sunlight penetrated the roof of thickly-leaved branches lifted high by straight, stout pillars of tree-trunks only yards apart in every direction.

I'm not sure how many species of wild-life inhabit such a daunting environment. I imagine human occupation would produce a pygmy species, probably mobile, living off the creatures and the produce of the forest, making small attempt to transform their habitat by permanent improvement, adapting themselves more by a process of blending rather than competing.

In contrast are the gently billowing downs, that may have been tree-covered once, but now are cleared and either under cultivation, geometrically precise, straight-striped fields of crops of even height, and colour - shades of vibrant green, warm gold or soft brown, the shades of growth, maturity, fulfillment, satisfaction. And by the coast, the sea, calm, unending to a far, far distant horizon.

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By guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

Zeus And Me

"What kind of a dog is he?" It's the question most people ask, after they have edged away from him, beyond the reach of his chain. It's a good question. My son was told Zeus was a mastiff/bull-terrier cross. It could be. He is somewhat smaller than a mastiff, bigger than a bull-terrier, with a heavy, athletic build, a jaunty, muscular elasticity about him, a purposeful spring to his stride, cool and quietly calculating bright brown eyes that take in everything with calm friendly appraisal.

He has the placid self-confidence of a heavyweight, who knows that he does not have to prove himself but will not hesitate to do so if the need arises. He would rather, far rather, make friends than fight, but woe betide the dog that dares to challenge him, for Zeus reacts to aggression with an instant response literally too quick for the eye to follow.

Which is frightening, and also problematic. He will approach a strange dog with careful interest, intent on making their acquaintance. The difficulty is that his bull neck and heavy shoulders cause the stranger understandable concern and if he takes the trouble to approach them directly, their alarm might take the form of a nervous, warning growl.

I have only seen this happen once. The growl was cut off almost as soon as it started. Zeus had the stranger by the side of the neck and on the ground in a single blur of energy that tool both the other dog and myself totally by surprise. But Zeus's intention, fortunately, was benign. He simply pinned the dog down and held him there.

At the other end of Zeus's chain, I had been jerked forward, off balance, my only thought being to prevent instant slaughter. I had felt the force of Zeus's rapid sideways tugs, the power of those neck muscles wrenching rapidly from side to side, in many a tug-of-war contest with him in which I was barely able to hold my own at the end of a rope, and I knew no flesh and blood could possibly survive such an onslaught.

I doubt my panic-stricken commands to him to 'drop it' had any effect at all, if they were even heard by him, but Zeus simply held the dog fast, firmly pinned to the ground, and after a few seconds released his grip.

The dog leaped up, turned and bolted. It was the only time I have seen Zeus in action. I was chilled with shock and thoughts of what could so easily have happened, but the other dog, thoroughly chastened, stopped some distance off, in an attitude of total submission, and the owner marvelled admiringly at Zeus's performance.

For his part, job done, Zeus stood panting, looking at his opponent, at me, at everyone else, with a calm "what's all the fuss about" expression, ready for whatever else was required of him.

by guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

Albert Schweitzer

One has to admire the man. If that sounds as though I do so begrudgingly, let me say at once that I can't think of anyone I admire more. Out of a spiritual sense of obligation, Albert Schweitzer, musician, intellectual, abandoned the certainty of fame and success simply because he took scripture at its word and applied his love of God to the practical outworking of the Second Great Commandment in a demonstration of love in the shape of care and concern for his neighbour in the most dedicated and effective manner.

That he focused on his neighbour in the Cameroons, so far from his native Alsace, indicates the intensity of his commitment. As we read his straightforward, down-to-earth account of the manner in which he founded his mission hospital at Lambarene against incredible odds, we can only marvel at his perseverance. For a start, the climate was against him. Anyone who has lived under the shadow of tropical downpour, when the heavens open with a driving deluge that not only turns the surface of the ground into a sloppy mess of semi-liquid mud, but beats fiercely on any protective covering with demoniacal fury, stripping trees and bushes of their leaves, searching out the smallest roof-hole, sending exploratory rills along every cranny, into every nook, curling tentacles in every direction, until everything is sodden or swept away. Or, if it is not actually raining, the heat and humidity sap one's energy as if in organised onslaught, leaving all life dull and exhausted.

If that were not discouragement sufficient to stifle the enthusiasm of the most dedicated disciple, the seething abundance of insect life, much of it in apparently frantic opposition to every effort of mankind to improve his existence, makes its presence known, usually in a manner inconvenient or obnoxious and at a time when it is either too late or too impractical to take any steps to avoid or oppose it. Dr Schweitzer never complains. It seem it is just not in his character to do so. Indeed, to complain would sound a jarring note, altogether at odds with the tone of his writing and the reason for his being in Africa at all.

His willingness to pit himself against adversity is phenomenal. Admissions of extreme fatigue sound reluctant, casual, merely for the honesty and completeness of the record. The shortcomings of his workers he describes in tone of wry acceptance, tinged only slightly with the utter exasperation he must have felt as his best efforts to improve the lives of those he gave up everything to save were repeatedly frustrated.

He mentions them in the tones of a lovingly loyal parent aware of the limitations of his offspring, finding all manner of excuses for them, patiently adjusting his expectations accordingly. He paved the way for others to go out and serve.

Out of My Life and Thought (Albert Schweitzer Library) USA
Out of My Life and Thought: An Autobiography UK

by guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

Autumn Glory On The Bus Route To Hitchin

On an impulse, stirred by a stubborn resistance on the part of the weather to conform to the equally obstinate insistence by the Met Office that the idyllic warm sunshine, cool breezes and joyfully clear skies are over and the overcast, chilly, wet winter has come upon us, I went to Hitchin this afternoon. There were clouds, firm-edged, flat-bottomed cumulus like snow heaped on a transparent surface above us, floating almost imperceptibly as if reluctant to move, determined to bestow on the world below the full benefit of their glory. There was a coolness, more invigorating than uncomfortable. When the sun did disappear, it was never for long.

It was altogether an afternoon when it seems ungrateful to be indoors. Two days ago we heard from a friend in Harare, who said that Zimbabwe is experiencing a really serious heat-wave. She was not complaining. Rather she expressed her sympathy for those in the hot spots of the country, the Zambesi Valley and Lowveld generally, where even in a normal year all life outdoors slows to a pace of minimal effort and the only movement in the Bush is the odd bateleur eagle gliding high on widespread wings. Not for nothing was October known as 'suicide' month in Zimbabwe.

But here in Luton, today, it was alternatively comfortably warm and refreshingly cool. As I have been moved to do many times during this year's astonishingly benign autumn, I wondered again today whether there is anywhere else on the planet so blest in the matter of weather. If the term 'Whinging Pom', purportedly used in Australia to describe British immigrants to their country, has as it's origin the climate of the United Kingdom, then all I can say is that the Brits - we Brits - are a hard lot to please.

So it was that I felt constrained to go somewhere today. Anywhere, out of doors, as much in grateful obligation as for the joy of it, for surely the Met Office cannot persist much longer in being so wrong. Weather this good, like all special treats, can't go on to the point where we take it for granted.

Among its other good points, and there are many, Luton is conveniently placed to travel by bus or by coach, to London, Oxford, or Cambridge, three prime destinations in the U.K. In addition, there are frequent services to not a few other centres, St. Albans, Bedford to name only two. But since it had taken me all morning and a good part of the afternoon to decide on abandoning my planned programme and making the move, and since the evenings are noticeably drawing in, I chose a closer venue - Hitchin.

It would have been worth the effort just for the drive. No less than three local buses run frequently to Hitchin, each by a different route. I boarded one at random, which called in at several little villages on the way. It would have been worth the trip for the drive alone. We left Luton in mid-afternoon

Autumn, "season of mists and mellow fruitfulness, close bosom-friend of the maturing sun", inspired Keats to express his appreciation in an ode specifically for all that the season meant to him. I first heard his lines with an almost scveptical wonder as a schoolboy in the heat and boredom of a classroom in Rhodesia and marvelled that a poet could be so eloquently moved. Today I understood. Maybe this year's exceptionally warm, sunny autumn has something to do with it. Never before have I seen the trees so ablaze with colour, from deep maroon to brilliant yellow, with all shades in between, and greens and browns in endless exuberant yet delicate gradations. On the ground beneath, the thick carpet of fallen leaves was a joyous riot of stupendously variegated colours, shapes, designs. If elves and pixies had bobbed up among them to make merry and cavort about it would not have been in the least surprising, just wonderfully appropriate.

Nature, God, vibrantly alive and rejoicing in a final fanfare before winter sets in. Who can, who dares, doubt the significance of all this glory?

The Complete Poems of John Keats (Modern Library) USA
Complete Poems of John Keats (Wordsworth Poetry) (Wordsworth Poetry Library) UK

By guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

A Day Out In St. Albans

A bright, warm sun, chilly breeze, sky a clear blue except for scattered cotton-wool clouds that seem to complement the perfection of the day - on days like these it seems only proper, sometimes imperative, that one should spend as much of it as possible in locations befitting the weather, suitable venues for the feelings of joy, the surges of energy and optimism that the conditions call forth. Too often the decision to act upon such emotions is deferred through the intervention of events trivial in themselves but significant enough to require attention. Too often too much time is taken up in trying to get these details out of the way so that they will not prey on the mind to the extent of detracting from one's enjoyment of a change of environment or hover in the background, necessitating an early return. Today I acted convincingly enough to board Bus No 321 at the end of our street in Luton, bound for St. Albans, but forgot to equip myself first with the customary flask of coffee and sandwiches.

These items are by no means a luxury. Hot, sweet coffee accompanied by biscuits or sandwiches have become an essential component of such pleasure outings. Their omission caused considerable distress, since one must then decide whether the £2.90 one would have to spend on coffee would be well spent. Obviously it would not, since even at the Oxfam bookshop, few books of quality are priced below £2.00.

The matter then becomes a choice between book and coffee. The book will always win in this unequal contest, since a book can be read over and over, coffee must be drunk before it gets cold! So today I bought a paperback that caught my eye, entitled 'Writing a Spiritual Journal". for £1.99 and wandered back to Bus Stop No. 10 on the main thoroughfare through the city, where I would catch my bus home. (This after a brief wander about the town centre, gawking in disbelief at the cost of notebooks, the size of a slim pocket, selling at £6 purely because - as far as I could see - of its moleskin binding.)

At Stop 10 I sat on a bench near the edge of the street and regarded with nothing more than mild interest the slow stop/start progress of traffic almost nose-to-tail, and marvelling at the restraint and courtesy of drivers in this very civilized community. Perhaps the fact that it was a sunny spring day had something to do with it, but no driver, at any time in the afternoon, sounded his horn.

St. Albans' main thoroughfare is narrow, due to the layout of the town having been established long before the days of the motor car. Traffic lights keep the progress of vehicles of any size in any direction to either a slow crawl or a stop. No-one seemed to mind. An enormous dark blue pantechnicon stopped in front of me, the whole of its monstrous side covered by a vivid painting of a knight in full armour astride a furiously determined white horse, charging with lance levelled at the traffic ahead. Underneath the galloping hooves a banner bore the proud legend: "Knights of Old - Service with Honour". The whole display seemed right and fitting in this old town of history, sanctity and bloodshed for a worthy cause - until I saw painted on the door of the cab the firm's address, in Northampton. It stopped, with the rest of the traffic, opposite me as I sat on the bench, about three yards away, the comfortable grunting of its exhaust probably belching forth any amount of toxic, invisible gases.

A lady of formidable proportions, her considerable bulk accentuated by multiple layers of warm clothing - there is a chill, challenging breeze despite the warm sun - approaches from behind me, pushing a species of four-wheeled, upright trolley, from which three small, vividly coloured toy monkey-like creatures dangled, suspended on short elastic bands, jiggling gently, two of them wide-eyed with excited wonder, the third doleful, apprehensive, expecting the worst. The good lady makes her way with a slow, rolling, purposeful gait to the far end of the bench, commences to unload from her trolley more than a few carrier-bags, crammed with supermarket groceries, on to the bench. Bags of 2kg sugar, at least four of them, were stood together on the rough tarmac surface of the street. Something else in moderately-sized cartons also formed their own pile. She blockaded her position on the bench with a stockade of groceries. Then a little tower of cartons feel outward, spreading themselves in random disorder. She ignored them, went on unpacking. It would require, I surmised, no small amount of effort on her part to get up from her seat, clear a way through the barricade of jumbled tins, boxes, packets, bottles, to retrieve the fallen cartons. I did the gentlemanly thing, salvaged them for her. "Thank you very much," she said. I am sure she meant it, but the flat absence of any emotion in her voice discouraged further communication or even eye contact, and the opening for just a smile or simple conversation-opener along the lines of "weekly groceries" was gone. I returned to the book from Oxfam, she continued to busy herself with re-arranging her purchases, discarding the carry-bags, packing the articles sensibly and efficiently into her trolley, heavy sugar bags at the bottom, lighter items placed compactly on top, maximizing the use of space. I went back to my book. Surprisingly quickly everything was satisfactorily arranged in her trolley, the cover battened down, and she sat back to enjoy a cigarette. The wind was blowing my way as she exhaled. I pretended not to notice. Soon she got up and went away.

Was this an opportunity missed to share our common humanity? Is advanced age - full three-score years and ten - and the sensitivities that go with it, in combination with a white beard, wrinkles, unsupple joints, slowness of intellect and faulty diction no excuse, no reason even, to be hesitant about making the first moves toward communication? Maybe not, but they don't make it any easier either. So there lumbered off, out of my life, in a lingering whiff of tobacco smoke, another stranger who might well have been the legendary friend I do not know.

Writing the Sacred Journey: The Art and Practice of Spiritual Memoir
Deep Water Passage: A Spiritual Journey at Midlife (UK)

by guest blogger: Brian Murgatroyd

Let's Face It. Is It Worth It?

'Oh that I had wings like a dove. I would fly away and be at rest; truly I would flee far away; I would lodge in the wilderness' Psalm 55 vs 6,7.

It's not pressure of a job that makes one feel this way. It is in fact the opposite. It's the lack of a meaningful purpose for living. If I said that aloud to the family at the breakfast table (What am I saying? There is no such thing any more.) I know exactly what their response would be. 'What about us? Don't we count? Don't we mean anything to you at all?' All of which, of course, is nonsense. They are very dear to me, each one. But they all live their self-contained lives, most of them trying to do more than they can cope with in terms of both time and energy. If we do have time to spend together, it is usually leisure time we have made a point of putting aside. Which is good, and very necessary, to keep the channels of sharing and caring clear, free and in working order.

But such is the pressure and tempo of life in this day and age that one soon begins to wonder whether time, even 'family time' spent in domestic chit-chat for the sake of being in one another's company is time well spent. How long before one begins to wonder whether the branch of the family tree being favoured with your presence at that particular time is showing signs of restlessness that can only signify the result of their wanting to get on with whatever it is that they would be doing if you had not engaged them in conversation?

We all live such independent, encapsulated lives. Not particularly because we want it this way. More because we think it the right thing to do. This perhaps is part of one's desire, nowadays, not to get in the way of each other. Each branch of the family, and sooner or later each member of each branch, develops their own individual agenda. Of course there is much to be said for individual enterprise emanating from the fact that no two characters are alike. But it doesn't make life any easier.

Obviously we would be boring company for each other if we were all clones. The new blood that comes into the family through marriage or adoption, or the new thinking emerging from new influences being brought to bear on succeeding generations subject to innovation in education or simply new directions of thought as a result of new discoveries in all the different areas of man's experience and endeavour, will bring pressure on the family at large to change its ways, broaden its thinking. Which will engender difficulties, challenging us to find ways of resolving differences in our responses before they become problems and, finally, issues. But that's how progress comes about - if we handle it properly.

Material changes, due to social change, will deeply affect lifestyles, attitudes, expectations, disrupting the observance of old methods and traditions. All these factors, and a multitude of others, mitigate against the calm continuation of the old ways, life as it was. The family must surely be the first institution to be affected by a necessity to change and adapt to emerging forces and novel conditions.

Not all the necessary changes will be for the worse, but one can only regret the passing of the traditional family unit where each succeeding generation fell naturally into a pattern of shared labour, effort, and responsibility, shouldering with pride the tasks, aims, ambitions of the generations gone before. The real challenge is how we cope with it.

Happy and relatively rare in the New world, is the family nowadays who live together, each member contributing their own particular talent in their special area of responsibility, for the good of the whole.

It seemed to work in the old days. What has so changed as to make a contented, co-operating family unit a rarity in our time? Perhaps a vital factor could be Greater Expectations? The novelty, luxury, diversity of city life draws the younger generation to the promised exciting fulfilment simply, evidently, through the earning of money. A well-paid city job appears to be the means to participate in the drive for urban ecstasy! Possessions become paramount.
expectations are driven to heights previously undreamed of, simply by the machinery of commerce. To be content with less becomes the scorned stamp of retrogression. Half the world, perhaps more than half, must live in poverty and deprivation so that the other half can revel in luxury.

Where is this leading us? Are we prepared to consider the outcome? Is the horror we refuse to face worth the lifestyle that can only be temporary?

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William Hickling Prescott - Massacre In Mexico

                   "Man in a state of excitement, savage or civilized, is much the same in every age".


Written in 1843 by on William Hickling Prescott in his book 'The Conquest of Mexico' describing a massacre of local Indians when an invitation to a feast was suspected by Spanish soldiery to be the prelude to a treacherous attack on themselves, the continent rings true down the ages.


Man's proclivity to violence runs though history like a river of blood. In the circumstances described,what other option was open to the conquistadors?  Presumably they were heavily outnumbered.  Their best hope of survival, in fact their only hope, and that a slim one, was to stage a pre-emptive strike, catch their enemy off guard.  In such circumstances, speed would have been vital.  The enemy would have to be attacked before they could station themselves strategically to make effective use of their numerical advantage with least loss to themselves.

The Spaniards were in no position to negotiate.  They were outnumbered, on unfamiliar territory, uncertain as to the strength of their enemies, ignorant of what direction the attack would come from, even what form it would take.  They had small hope of success, but no hope at all of survival by any other course.  Compromise was not at option.  Surrender would mean certain death, probably in a manner of maximum humiliation.  If there is no chance of mercy, better to die fighting.  Hence the old army adage that no foe is so fierce as a foe without hope.

The Spaniards therefore staged their own attack.  Taking their hosts by surprise, they quickly sensed their own advantage and, with courage now re-enforced by hope, pressed this advantage home to stage a massacre.  Whether they would have been shown mercy and merely taken prisoner, no-one  will ever know.  They had the upper hand and they took no risks.  The decision, though to a large extent forced, had been, in military terms, a bold one.  When it succeeded and the enemy succumbed, the emotion uppermost in the hearts and minds of the soldiery must have been relief, sharpened probably by a fearful determination to make assurance doubly sure, and accompanied too, in the heady, very human reaction of relief by the desire to wreak vengeance - for something that  never occurred, but was on its way to doing so.

The massacre of the Indians at Chomla earns no hymn of praise.  As a massacre, it is condemned, held up as evidence of man's innate savagery. Yet, on the ground, in the grip of emotions involving the most powerful instinct by man - that of survival - who can say what response ours would have been?  Unless we have been in circumstances of just such extreme terror, how can we be to the least degree certain how we would have felt, what we should have done?

Nobody applauds a massacre.  But in such circumstances as these, where each side feared the worst from the other, and both felt that their only hope of survival was to resort to desperate measures, perhaps the same, dark, desperate course would have been understandable, whichever side was pressured to take it.

We know, then, more or less, how man in a state of excitement, would be prone to react.  The matter rests on what influence in his society has the stronger effect.  This in turn is decided by whence such influence originates, how its influence is applied.  Is it much the same in every culture, every age?  If not, what is the nature of their differences?  Wherein lies the cause??  Especially this - wherein lies the Cause - must be identified, analysed, before we apportion the blame.


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First Impressions Of Prague

The airport was modern, large, spotlessly clean.  Much the same as modern airports anywhere, but this one had the added attraction of almost the whole of one wall and I forget which level, one huge plate of glass - or some substance equally transparent, facing the direction of incoming aircraft.  This is a feature the international air industry would do well to follow.  As good as a movie house, and at no cost.

The signs were not hard to follow, but one does wonder when the international community will devise a common set of nouns or symbols for the more significant features of public places - features such as Exit, Entrance, Baggage, Restaurant, and most of all, Toilets.  I was saved from entering the women's toilet only by a lady emerging as I was about to go in.  The meaningful look at the internationally obvious symbol for femininity on the wall adds the point that the positioning of such aids is also important!

I dis-remember the source of my next most important item of information but somewhere among my papers was the advice that I should take Bus No. 100.  The terminus was obvious and I had only to show the driver the street name and number of my destination that I had written in bold on a card - for him to nod briskly, dispassionately at a little self-service ticket dispensing machine.  I sat directly behind the driver secure in his little cubicle, close enough for me to engage his attention at some point to remind him of my destination.  A lady with two small children and what was probably her mother settled her three charges on the seat across the aisle from mine, and sat next to me.  Fair-skinned, dark-haired, black-eyed, thirty-ish her attention was altogether on her family.  This was unfortunate, as I was beginning to realize that regarding the matter of when to get off the bus I would require some advice, and the driver might not appreciate being approached whilst driving.

It was at this point, that I realised that I knew not a single word of whatever language it was the the Czech people spoke.  In the rush and flurry of our departure I had given no thought at all to the vital matter of a phrase book.  Before moving to England, I had treated with irritated unbelief the claims of other nations that the English in their imperial arrogance expected everyone else to learn their language, yet  here I was evidently guilty, though unintentionally so, of showing all the signs.

Apologetically, I asked the good lady whether she spoke English.  She smiled a warm, patient, sympathetic smile, glanced at the address on my card, and said she would tell me when we got there.  Not able even to express my thanks in her language, I had to say it in English, grinning my gratitude.  Now I could concentrate on looking out at the neat, clean outskirts of the city.  It was about twenty minutes journey through the ordered houses, shops, apartment blocks, generously lined with trees, before we slowed to enter the metropolis proper, where traffic intensified, but conducted itself still in a generously ordered manner.  I was beginning to wonder whether our bus proceeded straight to the city centre and how much of a performance it would be to find my way from there when my companion said something, smiled, pointed to a street sign, that amazingly, corresponded to the one written on my card.

Examining my card more closely, her smile widened as she gave me to understand that she, too, with her entourage, would be alighting at the same stop.  When we did, and came to the parting of our ways, the little group waved, smiling cheerfully, and I felt that I had lost good friends.

But my goal was close at hand, a neat house, moderately large, without pretensions, set back from the quiet street, comfortable in the shelter of a few tall trees and some shrubbery.  No sign indicated that it was a guest house and it was with some misgiving that I tapped the shining brass knocker.  There was no immediate response, but as I wondered whether to knock again or open he door, it was opened inwards by a man of middle age, casually attired in shorts and sandals, who regard me silently, his expression neutral.  I handed over Andrew's letter, with confirmation of booking and receipt of payment in advance.

He smiled and looked over my shoulder.  I explained that I had come alone, and he invited me inside.  The room was large, sparsely furnished with a sofa and several easy chairs arranged casually on both sides of two glass-topped tables.  The floor was bare, polished to a comfortable shine.  He showed me to my room apologized that he could not transfer me to a single room.  I was more than happy with the spaciousness and en-suite bathroom with shower.  I was a little surprised by the double bed, and wondered how much information Andrew had supplied in his booking, but as things had turned out there was no cause for embarrassment.

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Prague Trip First Day

It came as a total surprise when Andy asked me, apropos of nothing that had gone before, if I would like to come with him to Prague. He said it as though it was a walk round the block, and I had to change quickly into mental low gear. Prague. I knew very little about it. Like Rome, Athens, Lisbon, Madrid, it was one of those centres of civilization festooned in my mind with all manner of fascinatingly complicate cultural, historical associations that I would some day try to find out more about, sort out their distinguishing threads, how they came to be important, what connected them, and why.

Prague had about it a ring of culture, possibly political intrigue, rather than military glory. Would I like to go to Prague? With the briskly, efficiently intelligent Andrew to deal with all the worrisome aspects of travel - money, documentation, accommodation, and so on - all those aspects which require an agile mind adept at adjusting to foreign circumstances. I could simply walk beside him, imbibing atmosphere, enjoying - perfect.

Everything was ready and waiting. A special offer, week-end flight, B&B included and already booked The airport at Luton never looked so exciting. One doesn't wish to show it, of course. No demonstrating to the general public that the heart is pounding, a song of glory straining to be free. A bit of the old sangfroid called upon not to look too eagerly expectant before these people, seasoned travelers all, judging by the calmness, bordering on apparent boredom, of their demeanour.

The ticket queue moved slowly. We spoke seriously of this and that. Came the moment for Andrew to hand over our passports for the businesslike thump of official approval clearly stamped, the professional smile from the lovely lady in airline uniform, and we would be on our way. But what was this? Why the hesitation, the raised eyebrow, the closer scrutiny of Andy's passport? The lady conferred with a colleague, both ridiculously young. Andy bent forward over the counter in response to something that a beautifully manicured finger was pointing to, on his passport. A Zimbabwe passport and a Schengen visa, but still not allowed in the Czech Republic.

A pause, a few words exchanged. One of my difficulties in dealing with folk behind a sheet of glass is that I cannot hear a word they say,but it was obvious that something was amiss. Andrew, having retrieved both our passports, turned to me, tight-lipped and frowning. There was a hitch. His passport, some vital part of it, did not meet with regulations. Nothing could be done about it. Reflective pause follows. Ah well. At my time of life one has had some experience in dealing with disappointment. Ah well. Pity, but there you are. Easy come, easy go; shall we have some coffee before going home?

But Andrew demurred. "You will have to go over on your own," he said. Shock, horror, negative expostulation. Andy had paid for the whole deal - return flights, accommodation, sundry extra items, and he knew for a fact it was all non-refundable. So at least if I went, it would not be a total loss. I would enjoy it, wouldn't I?

"Here Dad, here's a bit of spending money, have yourself a good time. Prague. Enjoy".

So it happened that I sat in the seat by the aisle, a lady of evidently middle age and indefinite provenance sat next to the window. I was ready to smile and tentatively open conversation if our eyes happened to meet, but she never even glanced my way. Andrew's empty seat yawned between us. The good lady might have thought I was staring at her fixedly for the whole journey. I was only trying to see what I could past her, out of the window.

It was a calm, uneventful flight. The landing was smooth, scarcely a bump when we became earth-bound again. I changed some of Andy's money into local currency and sallied out into the strong, warm sun of the capital of the Czech Republic. Praha.

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The Start Of A Week-end In Prague

We had a special offer, week-end return to Prague. My son Andrew had, since graduating as a teacher and acquiring two year experience in Cambridge, undergone a species of metamorphosis from reserved and continuously wondering Zimbabwe bush person to a confident citizen of the world at large, ready and eager to experience close up the quality of life in parts of the globe he knew only from print, film and photographs.

I shared his interest, but to a far lesser extent his confidence. My generation, raised in a bush farm in the heart of Africa, to whom the word foreign meant the state just over the border, much like our own, experienced the world through books, magazines, music and imagination. The flight to settle in Britain had been awesome, inspiring, the stuff that dream are made on, equally as inapplicable to normality and therefore occupying the same space in my mind under "interesting but irrelevant".

Now he had bought two tickets to Prague for the week-end and we were approaching Luton airport, with monstrous jetliners parked about as casually as black taxicabs but nowhere near as personal and friendly. I trailed along behind my son, conscious of our role reversal, not wishing it any other way.

International travel is, they told me, very simple. Just follow the signs, obey the instructions, when in doubt ask someone. Not difficult. Anyone can do it.

We read the signs, made for the queue corresponding to our airline tickets and our destination. Things were off to a promising start. Progress was slow but nobody seemed to mind. Two brisk and serious middle-aged men in uniform asked to see our documents, conferred with each other, addressed Andrew, pointing something out in his passport. Low-voiced conversation followed, neutral in tone, regretful but firm. Andrew's papers were out of order. As a resident of El Salvador - where he currently lived and taught at an international school - he required some documentation in addition to his British passport. There was no way around this situation. Rules were rules. We agreed with that. Security was what everyone wanted, top of the list, in the interests of us all. Right. But it meant Andrew couldn't come on the flight. He didn't look like a terrorist, or talk like one. The men in uniform did not ask to search our luggage. They did not exactly smile, but seemed calm and friendly-disposed. I think we all knew Andy was harmless, but rules are rules and security is uppermost, especially in the air.

I prepared to turn and go back, but Andy demurred. The cost of the tickets was not refundable, so why did I not go on alone. Alone? I grew up in the African Bush, for goodness sake. Part of a different era. I can fend for myself in the Bush, walk in it for miles without getting lost; I know the ways of its creatures and feel at home with them. In this technological environment, where everything works by computer, I hardly know which way is up.

But Andrew, like the rest of them, said how simple it is. Follow the signs, etcetera. What well-meaning, kind-hearted folk don't realise, and can't seem to grasp when you tell them, is that the signs are in computer-speak, a foreign tongue with which I am not conversant. And yet I did want to see Prague. As an historic venue, from what I have read, few other cities in Europe cane match it. Also it would cut Andy's losses. A week-end in Prague, board and lodging pre-paid - why not? Just follow the signs. Ask. Mentally re-phrase replies into non-electronic language, and there you are. Simple. Passengers in their thousands travel every day. Nothing to it. What was the worst that could go wrong - no, don't go down that road. Carpe diem. Right. I shook hands with Andrew my son in case I never saw him again, and turned for the queue marked "Passengers Only".


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Don't Waste Your Youth

Our bedroom window nearest my side of the bed faces the street.  It is not a constantly busy street, but in my opinion the problem is not the cars or even the heavy lorries roaring to and from the building sites where they are constructing new houses in the grassy area where a primary school was demolished some years ago.  Pity about the building project, but that's another gripe entirely.

Up here on the top of the hill would have been a good view over the town westwards. From one window we  can see only the roofs of houses, blocks of flats, shops, city buildings.  Beyond them, though, miles away, softened by distance, a row of low hills gives a certain charm and interest to the skyline. It would be somewhere to sit of an evening, out on the balcony, if there was one, watching the sun sink slowly behind the hills, bringing closure to the day.  Instead, from across the street, where the shops are - two convenience stores, two take-aways, all cheek-by-jowl  -  the boys, the local youths, young men unemployed, with evidently nothing better to do than stand with their backs to the wall, talking loudly, often obscenely, sometimes in argument that ends in fighting, more often in raucous conversation and rowdy laughter, to the accompaniment of a deal of good-natured pushing and shoving.

One wonders if this is all life has to offer them, and if so, where is this country heading?  The lads are well-dressed, not flashy but not shoddy.  Many, probably most, of them smoke.  From the shrill, affected laughter, of some of them it would seem that drugs of one sort or another have common currency.  What does life hold for them?  To what kind of future can they look forward?  There must be opportunities - why do they lack the incentive to make use of them?  Is life too easy for them, or too hard?  Is the Government aware of the situation?  If so, are they doing anything about it?

So I lie on my bed and read.  But the window by my bed faces the street.  So I wear ear plugs and ear-protectors.  And I think of the farm, and the space and the silence of the bushveld in Rhodesia where I had the privilege, the incalculable privilege, of spending my boyhood, youth and early manhood.  Of spending my formative years in the pre-electronic age, when life was local and we found ample enjoyment and fulfillment nonetheless.

Is the condition of these lads one of their choosing?  Jobs, any kind of jobs, we are told, are not easy to find at present.  But the situation was the same before the job market got tough.  Are they really trying to find jobs, something, anything, rather than lounge around in the streets?  I put the question to a twenty-four-year-old who I happen to know hates the job he has been in for the last nine months or so.  "They seem happy enough," he said.  "Someone is paying for them.  Why should they work?"


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Cattle Dipping Day In Rhodesia That Was

"You're a Christian only because the Bible promises that God will make you prosper". Robert said it without rancour, just as an observation.  He leaned toward the cheery little campfire and carefully pushed a mangwe log further into the yellow, dancing flames.  Out in the darkness, toward the kopjies that loomed black against a clear, cool sky that seemed to hiss with starlight a jackal howled its manic observance to the night and was answered by another, faintly, far away.

Barry did not reply immediately.  It had been a good day.  Hot, with an intensity only October in Rhodesia could muster.  Suicide month they called it.  When the long, dry winter months were over but there were as yet only a very few, secret signs of life beginning to stir in the Bush and most of the trees stood stark and leafless as the sun gathered heat by the day and leaped roaring into the waiting sky at dawn.

The workers had rounded up a good count of the free-grazing beef here in No. 1 camp.  Not a full count, of course, but fifteen short, of a total herd of sixty-seven head, wasn't bad.  It had taken nearly two hours to drive the herd slowly, carefully, through the dip-tank, in almost orderly procession.  Some beasts paused cautiously at the jump-off step before making the reluctant plunge into the dark, evil-smelling liquid.  Others leaped spectacularly as far out as they could, disappearing entirely underwater before surfacing, wild-eyed and snorting spray, horns agleam as they struck out for steps leading out into the draining race of the dip.

The dip-tank was built to a width intended to accommodate only one beast, so if an energetic leaper followed a reluctant slitherer, there could be a resulting confusion of struggling bodies which required the services of the man with the long forked pole on the watch halfway along to sort out, assisting the weaker of the two to avoid it being held underwater.  It was this man's task also to control the pace at which the animals entered the dip tank. A rush of too many at one time could result in some being pushed under, ingesting the poisonous liquid, even drowning.

In the early days, two cattlemen inside the entry track urged the animals forward by shouts, shrill blood-curdling whistling and, when necessary, the application of long, thin sticks to the backs of those they could reach, to encourage a forward surge that would push the dallying cause of congestion off the ledge into the liquid.  In later years, the cattlemen were encouraged to adopt, as far as possible, a more calm approach, taking fewer beasts at a time forward to the jumping-off point, keeping the use of their long switches to a minimum.

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Return To The Farm

In retrospect, it all seems so silly. It was what we were used to and all that, and I had other feelings about it even then that I should have acted on, and I'm sorry now that I didn't. In fact I did, up to a point. Further than most others, I'd say. But Simon was in a class of his own, and now it seems weird, and silly, but weird as well.

The whole thing seemed unreal. Sort of as though it wasn't happening. Couldn't really be happening. This is not the way things happened. Yet one just got carried along, by the circumstances. The farm was still there. three hundred and more miles away, but still ours. Still as it was. Not really at all as it was, of course.

But the house, the cattle, the windmill by the old house, up by the fowl runs, that creaked at night when the wind changed and the wheel swung slowly to face it. But somehow, everything was different. Circumstances so changed. Everything different. It was the difference that loomed like a poisonous fog in our lives.

We had moved. Can't recall the stay properly any more, but we had taken jobs in a city three hundred miles away. Sally was a teacher, a good one, a teacher who got things done, got results, even when it caused a ripple or three among some of the other members of staff. But we seem to have drifted from one place to another, from what might have seemed fortuitous circumstances to fortuitous circumstance. Being a praying family, we called it being led by the Lord. Nor have I changed my mind about that. Little driblets of memory and anecdote come through now and then in casual conversation, from the older four of our six children, the ones who were left behind when we came overseas, that through new light on unexpected angles that I was not aware of at the time - or didn't attach as much importance to as I should have. We just reacted to circumstances as they arose, made the decisions that seemed best.

Even with the rationality of hindsight, one wonders how it could have been done differently. So at this particular juncture I tendered my resignation, and we set ourselves to go back to the farm.

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Musings Of An Ex-Rhodesian - What About The King

One might think, perhaps, that eighteen years would be time enough to develop a sense of identity.  After all, we had never been anything other than British.  In front of the Post Office, Police Station, District Commissioners Office, Customs Office and Immigration Office, at the railway station and both the primary and secondary schools, it was the Union Jack that stirred languidly in the tropical sun.  On occasions of civil solemnity it was 'God save our Gracious King' that was sung, low, slow and meaningful.  Memories from more than half a century ago remain vivid.  Of the dignitaries of our little Rhodesian border town standing stiffly, a little awkwardly to attention as they sang, and as a boy I wondered at the power of a monarch so far distant.

Our money bore his likeness, his head was printed on our postage stamps.  He was our sovereign leader, he was the King.  The very word resonated with a power and pride that evidently all the adults felt and was ingrained in us from birth.

This little bit of Africa, with other bits adjoining and scattered over the continent, bringing civilization, peace and progress to the continent, was under the  control of that one man, the king, whose power extended over much of the world beyond Africa too.  And over it all, the king, the king, was potentate.  Primarily he was the great benefactor, bringing blessings in a varied multitude of ways, to tribes and nations all over the globe.  And because there were always those who made trouble, the king was always the one to keep the peace, providing the security we felt, being British and benefactors to the world and all who wished to live in peace to make the best they could out of life.  It never occurred to us that anyone would want it any other way.

This put a burden of tremendous responsibility on our King, but being King, he commended, and deserved, the loyalty, effort and energy of all decent, right-minded people to direct the running of the world in the best way possible.

So we took off our hats and stood to attention, proud and wondering and ready to follow our elders to do whatever was necessary, directed by our king.  It was a feeling we inherited from our earliest childhood.  It stirred the blood and we felt that it was good; good for our country, good for everybody. So our hearts were in it when we said, and sang and shouted: "Long Live the King!"

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Blessed Relief From Eczema

Blessed relief from Eczema came for our grandson Chris when he was ten.

Your heart could hardly bear watching him.  Scratch, scratch, scratch.  Tummy, legs, arms, face, back, neck - there was hardly a spot on his body which was not affected.  This had gone on since he was two.  Every type of medicine you could image was tried.  Emollient creams were a daily routine. DiproBase twice a day and again at school if the itching overwhelmed him.

Tepid baths with Oilatum poured into the water daily.  Occasionally he would go on steriods but his Mum worried about their thinning affect on his skin, so she used them sparingly. Night times were difficult as he couldn't sleep well.  To help him he had a air-conditioner running, and was allowed to listen to the radio, read and watch some TV shows until he fell asleep.  They say children grow in their sleep.  This would explain why he never grew fast.

He was small and thin, with arms like sticks. Yet despite the misery the eczema caused him, his Mum encouraged him to live as normal a life as possible.  He was bright and did well at school, but suffered the odd looks and remarks from other children as a result of his obvious skin condition.

We are a praying family and we always prayed for Chris, that the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ would heal him.  It was difficult though, because although we are taught to believe for healing, Chris' eczema remained with him.  What was a miracle though was the way he lived his life.  He was a surprisingly cheerful boy whose sense of humour was easily tickled.

Despite being small, the prognosis of his bone density was good.  There was plenty of room for growth.

Caring people would stop whoever was with Chris in the street and suggest a treatment that had worked for them.  Unfortunately, there was no blessed relief from eczema for Chris.

Then one day his Mum was pointed to an internet site.

The result was a visit to a Doctor who practices in both South Africa and the UK and who specialized in dermitology.  He had a lot of success with eczema.

Later he told us that his first look at Chris had resulted in him feeling that Chris' recovery from eczema would be slow.  In fact, Chris responded so well to the treatment that the effect on his skin was almost immediately noticeable.  He's been eczema free for more than a year now and manages his own treatment. At last he has got blessed relief from Eczema.

He has to apply the cream prescription once a day.  A lot of his eczema problem was down to the fact that the scratching broke his skin which in turn caused a low grade infection.  Treating this was the first step to his recovery.

The Doctor's name is Dr. Aron.  There is no affiliation to him other than he being my grandson's doctor.  If anyone else is suffering from this awful itchiness than it is very worthwhile contacting this Doctor.  Perhaps for them too, it would be an opportunity of getting blessed relief from eczema.

PS. I apologise for any adsense ads which are offensive.  I have done what I know to do to get rid of them but have not had success.  I will continue to try.

A pebble on a beach

We've just got back from a camping weekend at Weymouth in the UK.  It was a lovely spot, especially since the weather held all w/e.

Our 11 year old grandson had been given a ring by his aunt.  He was really pleased about this.  In order to make sure he didn't lose it, he put it with his socks and tennis ball with the rest of our beach luggage, never dreaming somebody was going to move it all.

At the end of the day, he went to look for it.  There was nothing there. No tennis ball, no ring, no socks. All the luggage had been packed into whatever carry bag was available and taken down to the water line.

He came back to the waters edge and asked me if I would help him look.  Look for a ring on a pebble beach where we had been sitting and walking around!  All I could think of was that God knew about the sand on the seashore so he must know where my grandson's ring was.  I told him this and said he needed to pray.  We looked around unsuccessfully for a while and then made our way back to where he had originally put it.

People were getting ready to leave.  I asked them to check when they got back home to see if the ring had been put into their luggage while my grandson continued to look around where we were standing.  And do you know - he found the ring.  A few feet forward of where it originally was, but there nevertheless. On a pebble on a beach.

Don't give up on prayer or faith or hope.  He is able.  He kept His promise about Jesus and He shows people that He cares.

Who Inherits The Kingdom Of God?

We do His commandments.  This is the first step towards inheriting the Kingdom.

And His commandments are not difficult or harmful.  We confess Christ, because He is God's anointed Holy One.  Even today.  He is the Way to eternal life.

How many are the martyrs who have stood for the faith of Christ.  Their voices are still heard today, because they preached the same message the early apostles preached.  'Jesus Christ is Lord of All'  Every man will confess Him to the Glory of God the Father.

That is a goal and an aim which is worth going for.

Staycation: Paddling Limestone County’s Canoe and Kayak Trail makes nice break from routine

Staycation: Paddling Limestone County’s Canoe and Kayak Trail makes nice break from routine

Review 0f Christopher Guest's 'Best In The Show', 'A Mighty Wind', 'The Spinal Tap' And 'For Your Consideration'

The enjoyment of a film can often be tied into the viewer's expectations. Having an idea of what you are about to watch can help increase the odds of enjoyment, especially if like me, you can´t abandon a film, of any standard or enjoyment level, half way through. So, if you are a fan of films with thumping sound tracks, gunfights, modern special effects, fast cars, beautiful people, exotic locations, golden beaches, stunning scenery, A-List cast and flesh regularly flashed, then the recommendations below are not for you. So despite having removed all the main ingredients of a traditional blockbuster, and having risked losing your attention, I continue unrepentant.   

I am here in fact to recommend  the ´mockumentary´ and a series of films from this genre's undoubted master: Christopher Guest, who plays varying roles in all 4 of the listed.  The ´mockumentary´ for the uninitiated, is a film in the style of a documentary but in which all characters are actors. Guest and his various cohorts, without straying too far off the idea of a character and dialogue driven film, do allow themselves a little more razzmatazz than an actual documentary and in such the appeal is widened. Mixing techniques such as ´interviews´ with ´old footage´ and ´cameras following unaware characters,´ the films are set in a space of time covering a specific event.

These films revolve around likeable, if slightly oddball, characters with slick dialogue. Guest tends to use the same handful of actors who clearly enjoy their roles and revel in the careful silliness of it all and you are drawn into their worlds seamlessly. In keeping with most real-life documentaries, a slushy ending is avoided and there are usually both winners and losers as the ´event´draws  to a close. Choosing his subjects carefully, the films delight in both the quirks of the individual characters and by revealing a world hitherto seldom seen. Each Guest fan will have their own favourite, I can recommend all of them, though will take the risk of ranking them for your interest-

Best In Show : maybe because this was the first I watched and had been given the simple recommendation ´you might quite like it´. Knowing the recommender, I knew what type of film to expect, but that was all. I did like it, very much. The context is a Dog Show.

A Mighty Wind : This was my second Guest film and being new to the role of self-styled film buff, didn´t realize it was the ´a Christopher Guest´ offering until I thought to myself, ´this is similar to that film I enjoyed about the Dog Show´ and checked out the credits. I enjoyed this one too! The context is a reunion show for a once-popular folk band.

This is Spinal Tap : The first and most acclaimed and quoted of the Guest films. It was inventing the genre – eat your heart out Ricky Gervais! I watched it last and it had got a bit dated for me but still enjoyable and with possibly the best dialogue. The context is a comeback Tour of a Rock Band.

For Your Consideration : The most recent of the films and it had the feeling of pro´s performing a familiar routine that they all know is well liked. Might well therefore be the slickest of them all & Ricky Gervais gets a role. The context is a cast of  an Oscar- Nominated film awaiting Awards nights.

Waiting for Guffman

Best in Show Poster 27x40 Christopher Guest Michael McKean Parker Posey

Best in Show: The Films of Christopher Guest and Company by Applause Books